Apology accepted…


What do you do when someone apologises to you?

  1. Do you easily forgive and forget?
  2. Do you forgive and then never forget that?

I fall under the second category. I forgive people very easily but never forget what they have done to me.

Apologies can grant forgivance but they cannot take back the pain. After series of backstabbing and betrayals i have become very cold to all the apologies in my life. Because they never heal my pain. They only add lessons in my life and make me more alone.

The only reason why i feel that some apologies are incompetent because they are nothing but an array of the same age old letters like “stop being sad” “please dont go away” “i am sorry” which are pretty much same.

If you really want to apologise something to your dearest person … please stop begging for forgivance and start taking initiative to heal their pain. ACTIONS SPEAK BETTER THAN WORDS.

Give some warmth and love to your dear ones and try to listen to them instead of being very cold to them. Give them some more respect. Man does not need apologies when his trust has been broken. All he needs is some love and respect back again.

Stand by your friends when they need them and don’t abandon them. IF YOU DON’T STAND UP FOR SOMETHING YOU WILL FALL FOR EVERYTHING.

Give them some quality time instead of your mere sorrys and poems. Who needs your beautiful words when you have already defined your limitations of being a true friend.

When someone offers you a hand in help make sure that you also offer them a hand when they need you.

Try to read between the lines instead of assuming that your friend is OK.

Because no matter how close you are to your friend, how genuinely you apologise to someone ….

THERE’S ALWAYS MORE THAN WHAT MEETS THE EYE.

My sincere words who agree to my idealogy is “Stop welcoming everyone to your heart. If you welcome them make sure they are free to walk away by giving you loads of lessons and tons of pain”

EITHER WAYS YOU ARE THE ONE WHO WILL BENEFIT.

 

Daily Prompt #17: Inside the Actor’s Studio


Daily Prompt: Inside the Actor’s Studio.

Hello everybody today I am supposed to write answers for few questions as a part of daily prompt programme by WordPress.com

1.What is your favorite word?

my favorite word is “awesome”. The main reason why I like that word is it is the best word to describe something which is delighting to your Soul.

2.What is your least favorite word?

least fav word is “ok” even worst when people use it in chat messages with “hmmm ok”. It annoys me a lot. It makes me feel that the other person is no more interested in our conversation.

3.What turns you on creatively, spiritually or emotionally

creatively I like people who can fuel my imagination and can believe in the power of making impossible the possible.

spiritually I like connecting myself with mature. Anything which makes me feel peaceful becomes a source of my spirituality. Be it work or yoga.

emotionally I like being with positive people who always fill hopes in any situation. I like people who value others time and their importance.

4.What turns you off?

diplomacy, mean people turn me off. Diplomatic people are tolerated only few minutes in my life. Mean people get the below words.

5.What is your favorite curse word?

my fav curse word is “WTF”

6.What sound or noise do you love?

I love the sound of Om. It contains all the vibrations of this world and is very peaceful one

7.What sound or noise do you hate?

hate the sound of some people who sneeze very badly. I hate the noise of someone banging the door very hardly

8.What profession other than your own would you like to attempt?

a lawyer. Yes I would definitely like to be a lawyer.

9.What profession would you not like to do?

the profession of a banker

10.If Heaven exists, what would you like to hear God say when you arrive at the Pearly Gates

Welcome to my abode.

Thanks a lot for reading my post.

Lots of love to all,

ARK

Daily Prompt #16: Conflicted


Daily Prompt: Conflicted.

You’re in the middle of a terrible argument, and everyone turns to you to help resolve it. How do you respond? How do you react to conflict?

Photographers, artists, poets: show us a CONFLICT.

Well recently i have encountered many a such conflicts when both the parties are trying to approach me for help. In most of the cases it becomes very difficult for me to arrive at a proper judgement as my decisions can hurt one person and provide relief to another. Unfortunately, both are my friends. In many a cases after being judgmental on a certain conflict i am being accused of “You speak only Negative” Or even worse “You take only the other side nobody wants to hear my story”

So for many days i too had restless mind. Day and night i would think how to resolve a conflict when the argument just gets hotter and hotter and then finally when i intervene both the parties show their angst on me.

Recently, i just had a conversation with one of my close friends regarding this.

He suggested me a best solution. That would be to quit entering the argument. Because when both of your closest friends are fighting and your intervention is causing them pain. It would be better to leave the platform then and there itself and avoid being in a catch-22 situation. Having said my this decision to both of my friends taking all the courage in my heart… i am now at peace. 

Thanks for my friend for providing me such a valuable suggestion.

I hope you got some clue in future whilst resolving some issues like this.

Thanks for reading my post.

Lots of love,

ARK